A research psychologist used a personality test to classify high school students as "repressors"—people who repress upsetting thoughts and feelings from conscious awareness—or as "sensitizers"—those especially attuned to internal states who freely express distress.
Given that ...
Repressors repress upsetting thoughts and feelings, whereas sensitizers are especially attuned to internal states and freely express distress.
Why is it that ...
Repressors are less shy and anxious, better tolerate frustration, and have better social skills / grades / self-esteem?
Evaluate / Goal
It's always hard to predict answers on Paradox questions, but even more so when it's an EXCEPT variation.
We want ways to explain how repressing your upsetting feelings is associated with more confidence, less anxiety, better tolerance for frustrations, better social skills, higher grades, more self-esteem. (So many possible targets!)
Conversely, we'll also like answers showing why expressing distress leads to the opposite of any of these.