Pat: E-mail fosters anonymity, which removes barriers to self- revelation.
Pat
Because email is anonymous, people are more inclined to reveal themselves, which gets to a level of intimacy that otherwise would take years of personal contact to achieve.
Amar
Being bluntly honest (in an anonymous email) is not the same thing as intimacy. Actual intimacy requires a social bond that can only be made with direct personal contact.
Evaluation
It sounds like they're disagreeing about intimacy. Pat thinks that intimacy is achieved when we are being self-revelatory. Amar doesn't think that this alone qualifies as intimacy. He thinks social bonds are required.
Goal
Look for something surrounding whether or not something qualifies as intimacy: - whether being self-revealing is / isn't sufficient to be intimacy - whether direct personal contact is / isn't required to have intimacy